Divorce, or separation might be unfortunate.
For good or for ill, marriage may end before death us do part.
Marriage May Not Last Forever
My favourite film is The Usual Suspects. Dr Strangelove runs it a close second. We thus alight on the story of Peter Sellers.
Peter had 2 children, Michael and Sarah by his first wife. His second wife bore him Victoria. He had no other children. He married his fourth wife, Lynne Frederick in 1977.
The marriage hadn’t worked, they were in the process of getting divorced. They’d reached a financial agreement. Lynne would have received £327,000 and their house in Los Angeles. Alas, Sellers died before the divorce was finalised. In the will he left each of his 3 children a bequest of £750. The rest of the estate, £4.5m in 1980 [about £30m in 2017] went to Lynne Frederick. To quote Spike Milligan, ‘She copped the lot’. Sellers’s assets outside the UK were disposed of in other wills.
Obviously, the relationship between the actor on the one hand and his children on the other was poor. His son Michael claims Peter Sellers had written him a letter the last lines of which were: ‘I no longer wish to be thought of as your father. The time has come for you to continue on your own way. My final suggestion is you change your surname.’
Separation, Divorce? Have All Of It
I don’t imagine however Peter said to himself, ‘this woman Lynne, the soon to be the 4th ex-Mrs Peter Sellers, this lady whom I’m planning to give as small a divorce settlement as I could get away with, really, I’d like her to get all of my estate, all four and a half million pounds of it’. He died in July 1980.
To shorten a long story, Mrs Peter Sellers aka Lynne Frederick, copped the lot. Everything. Including the kitchen sinks. Divorce proceedings aside, a couple are still married till the decree absolute is granted. Mr Sellers’s will was in her favour. She married and shortly afterwards divorced David Frost. At age 28, now a wealthy woman thanks to her inheritance from Peter, she married her third husband, a certain
Barry Unger. Lynne’s only child, Cassie Unger was born in 1983. Lynne died in 1994, just shy of her fortieth birthday. The sole beneficiary in her will was… Miss Cassey Unger.
So, do you imagine Peter Sellers wanted to leave his wealth to a soon to be divorced wife, and down the line to her children who are yet unborn?
The moral of story… as your circumstances change, you change your will.
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